We all need instant forgiveness, gratification or appreciation from others. But when it comes to giving, we want to hold the hurt, anger and the stories. We get so attached to the incident, and the feelings and emotions keep creating turmoil in our lives. As a result, sincere forgiveness becomes an impossible task.
'Sorry' is used so rampantly without truly understanding the meaning. It is a feeling of compassion for the other person. It realises the misunderstanding because of the difference in perspectives. Unless we go deep in this practice, we will not be able to forgive easily and willingly and keep ourselves trapped. We will remain stuck in the story playing the victim's role in a loop. The power will remain with the other person to say sorry to us to free us.
So, if you wish to be the hero, warrior or inspiration, practice sincere forgiveness and release yourself from the drama by letting go.
Wear the editor's hat and cut out what happened in the past and replace it with the new response. Past is gone, it is not coming back, but each time you go over it, you are recreating that emotion and living it again and again. So why not live it with the new ending that you can cherish and feel empowered with. Why watch a movie that upsets you? Change the story and dialogues as it is your movie, you are the producer, director, actor, and audience. Exercise your choice now!
What you don't like from the past, know that you have the power to change it NOW!
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